Compassion, the Missing Link

The reason compassion for others is missing in our world might be because we lack compassion for ourselves. And the reason why we lack compassion for ourselves is because it was never given to us.  I am not talking sympathy or flattery here. I am talking about REAL COMPASSION. Compassion is relating to other's pain and...

The Illusion of Healing Completion

If you think you are healed and don't have compassion for humanity and all the stages they pass through on the road to self-authentication, then you have not healed. If you are condemning others or trying to push them to a stage they are not ready for yet, that is not what being healed looks...

Never Own a Disease? Can you heal by your mind?

​Never own a disease? Can you heal from disease using your mind? I have tried the "never own a disease" thing as in not talking about it, not saying "my restless legs, but instead saying "the restless legs"​. I had tried accepting it, ignoring it, denying it, talking to it nicely, asking it what it...

How Knowing WHY Creates Compassion

You have to understand WHY people turn out the way they do in order to get to a point where you no longer condemn them. Condemnation is merely the result of not understanding the reason behind other's behavior. When we understand, we create a place for compassion to be born. When we understand, we can...

The Purpose of Suffering

I intuit everything has a purpose for our growth. Doesn't mean you don't have to think it stinks; doesn't mean you shouldn't be have your feelings about it. Just means our own pain has meaning to make us better people. Having said that, while my inner child might be pissed off, the adult part of...

My Opinion on Femininity

Society has rules for each sex, but they have all been made up over the last century. How much weight do we give these arbitrarily made rules? There are specific differences, but are those differences what we've been told they are? Do we ever question them? Contrary to antiquated popular belief, being feminine might not...

The Humility in Poverty and My Take on Materialism

There was a picture circulating on the internet and it included a picture on the left of a kid crying because she got the wrong iPhone for Christmas and on the right was a boy in an "undeveloped country" with grungy man-made flips flops on. It went viral and this meme caused a lot of...