We all say we love authenticity, but then we celebrate, applaud and may even get turned on when other's authenticity and free expression is shut down and censored by banhammer mentalities. Authority is SEXY. Power is SEXY. Iron Fist Rule is SEDUCTIVE. I sit back and observe this human phenomenon and other's seduction to tyrannical... Continue Reading →
Could each dimension of consciousness have its own laws?
I have explained this before in another blog post of mine a while back as to why we often misunderstand one another. We talk about Universal Laws often, but here is what is overlooked: There are different laws all depending on which dimension of consciousness we are living in. This is why we often misunderstand... Continue Reading →
Double Standards and Authority Worship
Outside the universal problems and implications of authority worship I have is that so long as one is in a position of popularity, status, hero-ship or authority, they can have all the boundaries they want, all the discernment they want, and all the quirks they have. They are allowed to have flaws. In fact, their... Continue Reading →
The Underappreciated Role of Repression and Denial
More often than not, we don't remember our trauma or have only partial memory of it. We might only have memories of the parts we can dissociate from as adults. We are not supposed to remember trauma as a means to survive it and what we DO remember, we might be desensitized from as... Continue Reading →
Why Anger and Rage are Our Friends
Why Anger and Rage are Our Friends and Why God (the energy of Love) Gave us These Two Magical Emotions // Sorry this is long, but I hope you will read this in full before arriving to any conclusions. I know this is a difficult subject, but it's important for those on the path to... Continue Reading →
The Dangers of Uncritical Belief in Popular Spiritual Teachings
I think perhaps popular spirituality can cause post traumatic distress so severe that we move to the opposite extreme of the opinions that traumatized us. I think that is how some of us might attempt to take our power back even if it's false power. I see that happening with religion (from fundamentalism to... Continue Reading →
The Reason Why We Might Be So Protective of Our Food
Food is a religion since it's often based on uncritical blind belief. Just like you don't bad talk someone's mother, you don't the food they love to eat, even if it's poison, even if it keeps them sick... They don't see it that way. You do not down-talk any food or anyone's addictions. People will... Continue Reading →
The Underappreciated Difference Between Idol Worship and Respect
There is a big difference between respecting and feeling grateful for someone being in your life and worshiping them. Very, very different dynamics between the two that are patently underappreciated. The former should be obvious, but the later is not so obvious since so many of us worship people without realizing what we are doing.... Continue Reading →
Our Inner Guidance System
Did you know that we are all born with a built-in inner-guidance system? The only reason we might not realize it's there is because we have been programmed to blindly submit to authority. Authority worship was taught in school and at home from when we were impressionable little people. Now as adults, we don't know... Continue Reading →
Oh no! I’m not angry.
I've seen this all my life. Something unfortunate happens and this person is angry. I'll say "I understand; it's OK to be angry" and they'll respond saying "I'm not angry" or something to that tune when clearly they are angry. They are obsessing over the event and continue to rant about it or project... Continue Reading →
Anger
I often feel shame after using my voice firmly. I was raised to be a "nice girl" (polite, lady-like, quiet, docile, and people-pleasing). Many of us women were raised this way, yes? When I express my voice firmly, I always feel like I have done something terribly wrong. The shame is crippling. People don't even... Continue Reading →
What Might Be Behind The Creation of the Word “Empath”?
Did the establishment create the word "empath" to work as another form of spiritual bypass? I used to read all the empath memes and literature and used to think I was born special as I had thought I was an empath. I grew up feeling anything but special and I needed to feel special, so... Continue Reading →
Why One Cry is Not Enough to be Healed
The inconvenient truth about healing. So many of us think all we need is one good cry and we are healed. Nothing can be further from the truth. It has become a cliche. One good cry is the start, however, not the end of it. I have heard from so many before saying things like,... Continue Reading →