Do Those Who Have Been There Really Understand the Most?

Many abuse survivors report that the reason people belittle their feelings is because they haven't been there, so they don't understand. While it's true we judge what we don't understand, we also judge what we don't want to remember or face as well. I was once lurking in an online forum for sexual abuse survivors... Continue Reading →

The Victim and The Thriver

It seems as if we all have different opinions as to what a victim or survivor is and many of us disagree with how those words are to be used. I have made up my own meanings as to the difference between these two oversimplified words. For me "victim" is the stage of grief we... Continue Reading →

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